Imagine this (this is how one of our kids invites us on a daily basis into her imaginairy world, and now I'm trying the same with you), you are on your way to a friend. It's a 40 minute walk and although you don't really like walking in the winter, you know you have the get moving. You're almost turning 40 and you need to start excersising. So instead of the bike or the bus you decide to walk. You try to enjoy the walk despite the fact that it is cold and grey. It's not easy, but you manage to set your mind on other things but work and endless to-do lists. And then, all of a sudden the ground in front of you cracks. You freeze, with surprise in your eyes and shock. What is happening? And before you can really think clearly about what just happened the ground underneath you dissapears and after a long free fall you hit the ground. That was it. No more thoughts, no more walks, no more to-do lists. This - was - it. If such a particular situation would happen to me, ...